On rock ‘n roll, John Mellencamp, and calling the Midwest home

My first concert was a little like my first kiss: initially frightening but ultimately a good time, and now slightly embarrassing. The kiss was part of a spin-the-bottle game, and the concert was John Mellencamp, one of the newest members of Cleveland’s Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve loved Mellencamp since I can remember, but society has always ostracized me for singing along in my car to the likes of “Pink Houses” and “Small Town” and “Jack and Diane.” Damn you, society!

In a great post over at The Onion Av Club, Steve Hyden takes a look at the career of John Mellencamp, and explains how his feelings about Mellencamp’s music have paralleled his feelings about his much-maligned home, the Midwest, a place where travelers (and everyone) often see little of value.

As travelers, we can often feel as if our hometowns don’t really have much to offer. Always on the go, we’re concerned not with what’s out there, but with what else is out there. Hyden’s post is a reminder of Proust’s famous statement that, “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” Here’s a somewhat lengthy excerpt:

“After spending (too) much of my life desperately wishing I was from somewhere else, I’ve become something of a Midwest nationalist in the past several years. I’ve come to realize that after consuming way too much media as a kid, I was brainwashed into believing that “Middle America” was a pejorative term rather than a geographic area.

“I once believed I lived in Nowheresville, and that I was part of the Nowhere people; just a bunch of anonymous hicks responsible for putting Republicans in the White House and keeping cuss words off the teevee… I was one misguided dude, and it caused me to miss a lot of great things situated directly in front of my nose, like the coziness of a supper club on Friday fish fry night; the unbridled joy of a sweltering, all-too-short summer after a long winter; or the dazzling vistas of breathtaking natural beauty that are always just a short drive away. Not only do I appreciate it all now, I’ve come to believe that there’s no place I’d rather be.”

“Truth be told, John Mellencamp is an easy guy to make fun of. His song “Our Country” has recently been featured in roughly 10, 839 Chevy truck ads. He often wears vests with no shirt underneath… Oh, and he also once named himself after a large, killer cat. But Mellencamp, for better or worse, is my Skynyrd– he specializes in expressions of potent, defensive pride in the region I love… More than anything else, Mellencamp gets put down because he’s from Seymour, Ind., and being from a place like Seymour, Ind. is really fucking funny to some people. And his response to that, simply, is “Fuck you.”… I’m as sick of hearing “Small Town” on classic rock radio stations as anybody else, but there’s a part of me that says, “Yeah, me too,” when I hear it now.”

Whole thing here.

Guide to New Haven: What to see and where to sleep

Sights

New Haven Green (Dawn to dusk) One of the oldest town commons in the country, the Green brings back memories of colonial America, with its three historic churches and ancient elm trees. Oh, and it used to be the town cemetery (no surprise it was quite busy during the Revolutionary War). Come during August when it’s home to the New Haven Jazz Festival (Aug 10-24), which brings in 100,000 music lovers from the northeast. Make sure to avoid walking through the Green after dark-muggings are known to occur.

Yale University (432 2300; meet at Phelps Gate for guided tours; free; Mon-Fri 10:30am & 2pm; Sat-Sun 1:30pm) Home of some of the greatest thinkers in the world, Yale University sports the typical smarty-pants architecture style: the gothic Oxford feel. Don’t miss Harkness Tower, with its huge carillon bells and gargoyles, Sterling Memorial Library, which must be what a library in heaven would look like, and interestingly, Payne Whitney Gym (which was accidentally built in the style of a cathedral). End your tour with a sneak peak of Branford College, one of the twelve residential courtyards for Yale undergrads. By the way, Robert Frost called this courtyard the most beautiful in the country.

Yale University Art Gallery (432 0600; 1111 Chapel St; free; Tues-Sat 10am-5pm; Thurs until 8pm; Sun 1-6pm; closed Mon) This is the best deal in town, no questions about it. One of the top art museums in the country, Yale’s expansive art gallery will not cost you a dime. To sweeten the pot, a new wing just opened in 2007.

Sleeping

As a general rule, accommodations in New Haven are on the pricey side, since there’s so much traffic in and out thanks to Yale. That’s not to say there aren’t plenty of beds. But unlike the town’s food, when it comes to hotels, the variety isn’t quite there.

Yale University (432 9300; 38 Hillhouse Ave; free, but bring a sleeping bag; by appointment) Even if this costs money, a night rooming in one of Yale’s historic residential colleges shoul not be missed. The catch is you’ll have to be 16-22 and book fairly well in advance with the visitor’s center. They’ll place you with a current student, who should provide a couch and perhaps even how Yalies really party (with absolute abandon, that is).

Hotel Duncan (787 1273; 1151 Chapel St; s/ $40/$65) It’s not anything to call home about, but Hotel Duncan is good value for what you get: a clean room, cheerful service, and a great location. There are literally 50 restaurants within a block of the place. But don’t expect much more besides cable TV and bad décor in the lobby.

Courtyard New Haven (777 6221; 30 Whalley Ave; s/d $80/$150) This relatively new hotel is a solid mid-range option. You’re steps away from Yale’s campus, though the immediate surroundings can be a bit dodgy at night (don’t worry, plenty of students survive out here). All rooms come with free wireless Internet, big windows, and complimentary breakfast, though the building itself looks a bit too bland.

Guide to New Haven:

New hotel offers unusual service: They’ll read to you

Is this insulting or creepy or a little of both? The new Andaz Liverpool Street hotel in London is offering its guests a unique service. In honor of the London Book Fair in April, the hotel will provide their guests with a “reader-in-residence” who will read to them aloud in their rooms.

Would anyone other than small children, the illiterate, and the blind really enjoy this?

The journalist Damian Barr will be the first reader-in-residence, and he’ll also offer hotel guests something called “bibliotherapy,” which means he will “diagnose their literary needs and prescribe appropriate texts-whether it’s ‘a sumptuous Georgette Heyer, a classy giggle with Nancy Mitford or some glamorous gangsters with Jake Arnott,’ he explains.”

Don’t worry, I’ve never heard of any of those authors either.

Mr. Barr won’t just read anything you choose though. (Unfortunately.) The choices are limited to selections printed on a “Book Menu.” No word on whether “The Pet Goat” will make it on the list.

More here.

An island you’ve never heard of (let alone visited)

I just wrote my first New York Times piece, which came out yesterday. It’s about an island that practically no one knows exists. But it’s not even really an island (see the article).

There’s a photographer who’s doing some cool work capturing modern life on this little piece of history, which is right off the coast of Connecticut. Take a look, and if you’re interested in his work, here’s his website.

Please forward the article on the NYTimes.com to anyone interested!

European Independent Film Festival in Paris

If you’re in Paris this upcoming weekend, you might want to check out Écu: The European Independent Film Festival, taking place at la Bibliothèque Nationale de France on March 14-16, 2008. Showcasing filmmakers in eleven different categories, the festival aims to promote independent film from not only Europe but the whole world.

The coolest thing about the festival is that it is free, which helps to reduce barriers between independent film makers and their audiences. You do however have to reserve a seat in advance.

With over 100 films to choose from, you might have a hard time making a decision on which one to go see. Thankfully you can watch trailers to all of the films on Écu Interactive — also helpful if you’re not in Paris but want a little taste of what’s going on.