How safe is Thailand?

Here’s a story that’s all over the news where I live: A man from Calgary, Canada (my hometown,) was shot and killed in Thailand by a Thai police officer this past Sunday. The shooting occurred after a scuffle involving the victim, John Leo Del Pinto, his friend Carly Reisig and the officer, and both Del Pinto and Reisig were shot. Reisig is currently recovering in the hospital from gunshot wounds to her chest, and insists that neither she nor Del Pinto did anything that would provoke such a deadly attack.

When my friend Jenny and I stuffed our rucksacks and bought plane tickets to Bangkok after our last semester of University, we had no doubts in our minds that we were heading to a country that was as safe for tourists as our own hometown. But it was harder to convince our parents and when a shooting happened at a bar we were at within the first week of our arrival, we avoided telling them about it in case we got the dreaded ‘we told you so’ conversation. However, that was an isolated incident in our months of travel and I still tend to believe that if you don’t cause trouble, it won’t find you. But I’m starting to question that logic.

I’m curious to know what you think — is Thailand safe?

Travelhappy’s guide to Bangkok

Over at Travelhappy, Bangkok resident Chris Mitchell has put together a vast assortment of links to help the first time visitor to his adopted city. They’re separated into categories– money, shopping, guidebooks, hotels, day trips– to make the list extra useful-like.

Be sure to check out his Seven Reasons to Go Traveling Solo if you’re worried about looking like a loser with no friends (we’ve all been there), and his article Cheap Long Term Accomodation in Bangkok if you’re interested in staying a month or more. And when you can’t handle any more time in the serene oasis that is Bangkok, he’s got some great visa and flight information under the “Leaving Bangkok” section. Go on, give it a look.

For Gadling’s coverage of all things Thai, perform a click here.

Tourism with the “real girlfriend experience”

I’ve talked about nudist tourism and debauchery tourism, now here’s another spin on hedonistic tourist packages. It seems that the market for “sex” when traveling is rapidly being replaced by the emerging market for “girlfriends” on the road.

Premiering tonight at 10pm (GMT) is the documentary “My Boyfriend The Sex Tourist” that explores the life of western men for whom “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” is not enough, resulting in the growth of “commercialized love” packages where they can have women at their beck-and-call, 24-hours a day. The film’s director Monica Garnsey, traveled to Venezuela and Thailand and spoke to women trapped in these professions; the 2-part documentary is through their eyes.

When I was in Thailand, I saw the sorry state of Thai women making a living from prostitution. I heard that it is not uncommon that they submit to more that just sex, under the illusion of being rescued by a foreigner who will fall in love and want to get married. I saw the promo of this film and it seems like a much “happier”(?) one than I imagined. I think it is very depressing.

Photo of the Day (11/21/07)

The saffron colored flowers are absolutely gorgeous. Notice the Buddha head statue in the background? There is a tree growing around it. According to StrudelMonkey who snapped this shot at Ayutthaya, Thailand, the only reason the statue is still in existence is because of that tree. Ayutthaya was once the capital of Siam from 1350 to 1767.

If you’ve a stupendous photo you want to share, post it at Gadling’s Flickr pool. We’re waiting.

Thirteen places in the world to creep you out

Kelly’s post on haunted hotels reminded me of when I was a kid. There was an abandoned house on my grandparents’ street that was too hard to ignore. One Halloween my cousins and I dared each other to run across the front porch and knock on the front door after dark. Imagine my surprise when, instead of my fist meeting the glass of the door’s window as I expected, my fist kept going. There wasn’t any glass. Yep, I screamed and ran like hell. For years, each time I visited my grandparents and passed the house, even after a family moved in and fixed it up, I remembered the delicious feeling of being spooked.

That house was small potatoes compared to the list of 13 of the world’s most creepy places that Ralph Martin at Concierge.com has cooked up. I could almost feel that tickle of a breath on the back of my neck when I read about them. Just look at the photo of Bhangharh, India, a town where people haven’t lived since 1640 because, possibly, a bunch of people who lived there were massacred, and the rest fled never to return. Notice those monkeys? See how they are just sitting there watching the tourists who come by day and leave by night? Images of Hitchcock’s horror flick, “The Birds,” come to mind.

Here are more of the 13.

Then there’s Philadelphia’s Mütter museum, similar to Bangkok’s Museum of Forensic Medicine. There is a vast collection of gross out oddities such as removed tumors and models that show various maladies like just what gangrene does to a person. I’ve smelled it and it’s not pleasant–I can imagine the looks of it. *shudder* Willy wrote a detailed post on the museum with links to photos back in March. And for more forensic medicine gross outs, here’s another post from Willy on Thailand’s Siriraj Museum–there are 10 museums that make up this one to make sure you really lose your appetite.

In Mexico City’s Sonora Witch Craft Market, a happy Buddha sits in the midst of dressed up skeletons. Here you can get your fortune told and advice on how to turn your luck around. Before you leave you can pick up the ingredients for all your potion needs.

Easter Island off Chile’s coast is where huge heads carved from volcanic rock reside. You can wander among them and wonder how exactly they got where they are located and what happened to the people who made them centuries ago. No one really knows. Creatures from outer space, perhaps, came to help out with their UFOs? That’s one theory.

If you’re interested in traveling the path of a voodoo queen who put a curse on a place, head to the Manachc Swamp in Louisiana. Every once in awhile a dead body turns up here. There are torchlight night tours if the boat tour by day doesn’t give you enough chills.

Leif has also written about the Bran Castle in Romania. Bram Stoker modeled the castle in Dracula after this one. Look for the engraving of Vlad Dracula having dinner while surrounded by people he has impaled on stakes. Yum.

Gaad! was my impression when I saw the photo of the Catacombs in Paris. Walls of skulls and bones are hard to forget. Going here will make you feel like you’ve stepped into an Ann Rice novel. She’s used it as a setting for some of her stories.

To see the rest of the list, head to the article at Concierge.com. Here you’ll find the specifics about how to contact each place and lovely tidbits about what makes these spots unique. And, if you want 13 MORE places for Halloween, check out these. These aren’t the naturally creepy places, however, but ones created by humans to be perfect for Halloween frights and chills.