On the Inside: An Insider’s Guide to NYC

On the Inside calls itself a “personality-driven Insiders city guide.” Covering New York City, the site showcases movers-n-shakers from the Big Apple — including filmmakers, actors, designers, writers, models, artists, and musicians — who share their favorite spots to eat, drink, shop, and relax in the City.

Allowing uses to search by Insider, neighborhood, or category of destination, On the Inside helps visitors (as well as the congenitally non-hip) learn about some off-the-beaten-track destinations. For example, actor/comedian Will Forte suggests having cocktails at Professor Thom’s — a split personality of a bar — while filmmaker Salvatore Stabile suggests heading to the Brandy Library for a quiet drink and some good conversation.

If you’re heading to the City and you don’t know exactly what you’re going to do, swing by, poke around, and I bet you’ll come away with several cool ideas.

[Thanks, Laurie!]

Best Pubs in the UK

Narrowing down the best pubs in England and Wales is a Sisyphean task. Just as you think you’ve found the best, the rock comes rolling down and you have to start all over again.

Alastair Sawday, writing for the Times (UK) seems to think he’s manhandled the task, however, and apparently has the bollocks to claim he’s found the very best the UK has to offer.

Naturally, every drunk hunched over every pint across this beer-drinkng nation will have their own thoughts on the matter. After reading Sawday’s review, however, I think I’m going to side with his well researched and surpsingly sober opinions.

Take for example the 16th-century Harrow Inn at Hampshire that is “Unspoilt, brick-and-tiled,” and “hides down a country lane that dwindles into a footpath by a little stream.” Sawday notes that the pub’s “timbered walls, brick inglenook fireplace aglow in winter, [and] scrubbed elm tables” is the perfect place to while away the winter–although the fact that the “loos are a quick dash across the lane” slightly detracts from the allure of the place if you ask me.

A Canadian in Beijing: Theatre of Possibility

George and I walked through the Forbidden City gardens en route to the Forbidden City Concert Hall and I was struck by the history in the trees. They twisted up and around as though the weight of the stories that they held had bent their limbs, contorting them towards the sky. The grounds were lush and colourful with flowers of all kinds and beautiful stone walkways beneath my fancy shoes.

We were en route to a concert by a famous Greek artist named Alkistis Protopsalti, a thirty-year veteran of the music business. This concert was billed as the event representing thirty-five years of diplomatic relations between Greece and The People’s Republic of China.

We manoeuvred the twists and turns of the passageways, George all the while checking our directions from the various guards or people strolling in the gardens. He speaks choppy street Chinese filled with many colloquial expressions that make people open their faces in wide grins and help us without question. I marvelled at his ability to “chat” with people and his facility with Mandarin, but I suppose that comes from seven years of consistently coming here, singing songs in Chinese, Greek, French and English and building his career as Chairman George.
George and I have become friends quickly and I’m sure that’s because we are two Canadian musicians who are both in love with China and the Chinese culture. We are mirror images, in a way, and we spoke about our feelings for China with a similar reverence. He said that his life back home is a bit like living in a fish tank whereas China is his ocean. Coming here, he slips into a freedom that feels like a homecoming. I can relate. Not so much about the fish tank back home, but about the freedom and the sense of homecoming. I love the analogy anyhow and I have thought of it several times since then.

We arrived at the theatre to a bustling crowd of diplomats, foreigners, Chinese business people and a vibrant arts community mingling outside of the theatre entrance. George was recognized by a few people (he has performed extensively in Beijing, including in this theatre!) who immediately greeted us and exchanged “ming pian” (business cards) with him. (Mental Note: I need business cards and I shall make them this week.) George introduced me to several events producers who were very intrigued by my Chinese language skills and my performance career. He has provided me with their contact information for my next trip. (This was already proving to be another “guanxi” opportunity!)

We met up with our mutual friend Zou Rui who also brought another friend of hers (Chun Jia) who is also a singer here in China. We all went inside. The place was nearly full (and the theatre holds 1400 people) and when we walked in to the concert hall itself, we were ushered to the second floor balcony where we had back row seats and a perfect view of the stage. I would imagine that there are no bad seats in this stunning venue and I snapped a few photos of the layout before being politely reminded that it was against the rules to take pictures during the show. I wondered how they would police this as there were several digital cameras in people’s hands and here in China it is almost unheard of to restrict photographs! Still, I heeded the request (for the most part!).

Alkistis Protopsalti is an amazing performer and her band was made up of extremely talented musicians. The arrangements were excellent and they put on an energetic, engaging show almost entirely in Greek. At the end of the night, she took the audience from appreciative to a place of adoration when she sang a very well known contemporary song in Chinese: “Yue Liang Dai Biao Wode Xin” or “The Moon Represents My Heart” but Teresa Teng or Deng LiJun (her Chinese name), a very famous Chinese singer. The place went wild and cheered for a good 30 seconds straight when she began the song, to the point where she was forced to stop and then start the song over again. I have found this kind of excitement unusual in Chinese audiences; they are normally so polite and reserved. They truly fell in love with her in this moment! Music may be the universal language, but having some Chinese skills makes a huge difference.

After the concert, there was a reception and much of the audience stayed and mingled some more while drinking complimentary wine and other beverages and eating various Greek snacks that were being circulated around by waitresses holding wide trays. More “guanxi” happened here and George was amazing at working the crowd and introducing me to whomever he met. I really appreciated it.

When the crowd started to dissipate and Zou Rui’s friend had to leave, the three of us decided to head for some “yexiao” or “night snacks” and we ended up at a restaurant where Zou Rui insisted I drink some hot ginger cola for my cough (actually coke and ginger heated together and served like tea). I was disgusted by the idea but agreed to try it because this lingering cough is just annoying to me and everyone else, I’m sure. It was pretty tasty, actually, and I dutifully drank it down and ate as much food as I could to fuel my full recovery from this cold. The three of us laughed a lot and had a great talk and before I realized the time. It was 12:30am and I was exhausted.

We all parted ways with lots of love and smiles. I came back to my room, finally took off those uncomfortable shoes and reflected on the night of many emotions and incredible opportunities.

Possibility is sometimes so visible that it seems to have a form and a shape just standing next to me. This evening was one of those times. It followed me around like a protective older sibling. Had I turned and snapped a photo, I’m sure I would have trapped its light in my lens.

As clear as the stories in the trees, as history in stones, love in smiles.

Possibility.

I see you.

Dining with Strangers while on Business Trips

We posted yesterday about a service that links you up with friends and business associates who might randomly be in the same city you happen to be traveling to.

So what happens when this can’t be arranged and life returns to being a lonely businessman on the road?

Well, arrange a dinner with other like-minded souls.

According to their website, Dinnerpoint.com “provides a nightly service for people on the move enabling them to meet up, socialize and network over dinner in cities they are visiting or living in.”

Before all the spouses of traveling businesspeople start freaking out, this is not a dating service for lonely souls on the road. The site does not pair SWFs with SWMs in search of a romantic meal together (that’s what sleazy hotel bars are for). DinnerPoint evenings are a minimum of four people and a maximum of eight–most all of whom will be fellow traveling businesspeople also stuck in some godforsaken city with no friends.

Me? I’ve taken my share of business trips and tend to gravitate to a restaurant with a bar. There is something less lonely about eating your meal at a crowded bar then sitting by yourself at a table. Choosing to sit with a handful of strangers at a prearranged meal might be the perfect escape if they happen to be good company. If not, it could be a nightmare. Fortunately the site allows you to flag bad dinner companions so that future diners can learn from your mistakes.

(Via Business 2.0)

Mumbai’s Dabbawalas

Ever since I read that Mumbai was a crummy place to visit, I’ve been being reading up on the place. Today, I found this short clip profiling the city’s dabbawalas — 5000 men who move 400,000 lunch boxes every day using only their feet, the trains, and bicycles. So efficient are the dabbawalas that Richard Branson and other business leaders have invited them to give lectures on their system!